from BET.com

Author of the critically acclaimed BEREOLAESQUE: The Contemporary Gentleman and lifestyle coach Enitan Bereola gives the ladies advice on how to get the groom.

By Enitan Bereola

It’s not exactly 30, but it’s far from 21. You don’t feel too old, but you fully comprehend that it’s time to grow up. Your newfound sophisticated palate has matured from those Sex On the Beach pink drinks to a full-bodied cabernet sauvignon. Your best friend is wrapping up a toast to you when a Blackberry vibrating violently interrupts. It’s almost midnight, so you already know that it’s your mother calling to be…

Another MARRIED MANday. And it’s nice to know that some folks still believe in love and devotion!

by Paul Carrick Brunson

From Essence.com

 

 

I’d Never Step Out on Her

This is an actual conversation that took place recently between myself and a staffer (supplied by the venue) at one of my events:Guy: C’mon son, I know you’re married but don’t tell me you ain’t smashin’ none of these hotties that be comin’ to yo events? Me: Nope. Guy: C’mon son? Me: Nope. Guy: You Crazy Paul…you crazy in the head… even if I was married I would be runnin’ all through…

It’s a special MARRIED MANday today! Johnny Fernandez (Dr Lara’s hubby) breaks it down for us from the MARRIED man perspective. Good stuff!

From your first interaction with a man you’re telling him whether you are just a Fling, or a woman who might one day be his wife, possibly the mother of his children, in other words a Potential Wife.

When a man meets a woman, he is wondering which category to put you in – Fling or Potential Wife. We’re not really that complicated.

Many women have been conditioned by the mass media to believe that “looking sexy” is…

                Is it OK to date your friends ex? CLICK HERE for Enitan’s answer

 

 

       

                      Ladies, did your man act a fool when you did the BIG CHOP?  How does he really feel about you wearing a weave? CLICK HERE TO LISTEN: Enitan speaks on the HAIR WARS 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Re-thinking the G- Code

Written by Ise Lyfe

 

I’m not a father. Yet...

 

My relationship with my father was nearly non-existent as I grew up and though recently my father and I have begun a healing process around that, I am always reminded and aware of the void in my development caused by him opting out of my life.

 

When I look at small children it confirms over and over again that if I ever have children I will be relatively useless to the rest of the world as soon as they are born. I doubt I’ll be on planes, writing, or even reading…

            SEX FOR SALE: Rich & Powerful Need Only Apply by Enitan Bereola

 

In an untrustworthy world where the people who are supposed to pray for people prey on people, we all need prayer. Preachers, pastors, priests and Penn State’s former football defensive coordinator, Jerry Sandusky have been clogging news cycles with accusations of the sexual abuse of minors. Yes, minors.

Everyone has the right to a fair trial. Sandusky, 67, has been charged with 21 felony counts for allegedly abusing eight male minors over a period of 15 years. Despite the alleged evidence, he denies the charges. Of course he does.

There’s an…

 

 

Today’s question: “He broke up with me over the phone. Now he wants me back.” Listen in as Enitan answers! CLICK HERE TO LISTEN

Today’s MANday is a bit different, but in light of the “Occupy” movements, I thought it was right on time. Via SoulTrain.com

Occupy Soul is a series of demonstrations taking place in human spirits around the world. The participants are fed up with reality and protesting worry, dream killing, and doubt. The central demand of the protest is to end the influence clarity has on our goals. These demonstrations are now happening in 600 communities across the U.S. and likely to rise up in your town at any time.

We’re a society obsessed with…

Should a woman bring up exclusivity first? CLICK HERE TO LISTEN                              Follow nikki and enitan on twitter: @bereolaesque @nikkithomas1029 email your relationships questions to nikki: nikkit@thenikkithomasnetwork.com